I have had so many questions about sex and related topics from both parents and kids in the last few months. Parents grappling with how do you share what sex is all about in a godly way, how we protect our child, how much detail do we need to go into and mostly just a lot of “Help! I’m not ready for this!” The kids (ages 9 to 12) are grappling with how do I know what it is, what’s love got to do with sex, why did God invent sex and I have seen these pictures/ movies …
Goodness me! I am a children’s pastor not the youth pastor – but the reality is our children, not just teens, are exposed to sex in many different forms from a much younger age. We have the lollipop lounge billboards all over town, kid’s in their class whose dads have had affairs, movies, music, fashion and porn … and I’m afraid lots of it. So it is now part of my job to be interested in this, how it is affecting our children and what we as a church and as Christian parents are going to do about it. One of the biggest mistakes I have seen in the last few months is the reaction … those are the thoughts of other children, children who are not from our part of town, children who don’t go to church. That is the biggest lie we can tell ourselves – these questions came from our kids, from our church right in the heart of Bryanston.
So parents I ask you to join me … let’s partner together and reach this next generation with truth … the truth about what God created sex to be like and not what the world has changed it into. For this we are going to need courage, prayer and to love our kids enough to talk about this important topic before the world does.
I came across a blog from the Village Church in the USA that has some good thoughts on how we tackle this problem – hope you take up the challenge Middle School Blog: Parents, I Want You to Want Each Other...For Your Kids' Sake http://bit.ly/bCOz9q The Village Church (@villagechurchtx) 2010/02/25 17:07 |
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